
I have the privilege of being one of the stops on Mary E. DeMuth’s blog tour this week. The tour is to help spread the word about her latest book, Authentic Parenting in a Postmodern Culture.
Mary, how did the idea for this book come about?
We raised our kids for 2 1/2 years in a culture that was postmodern on steroids. (France). I figured if we survived, and our kids came through, maybe we’d have something to share with other parents. I also am tired of parenting books that pound out solutions instead of get to the heart of the matter. Good parenting flows from the inside out. The best thing we can do for our kids is to run to Jesus and have Him move us, heal us, help us, empower us. I wanted to share that message with parents.
As a mom of six precious children, that’s a message I want to read.
About how long did the first draft take to write? Would you say there were more days where the words flowed well or more days where you wrestled them onto the page?
I think it tool about 3-4 months to write. I set myself a word count goal every day. No matter whether the words flowed or not, I would write. Sometimes I wrestled, sometimes the words flew out.
That’s a good tip for the writer’s out there. Set a word count goal every day and STICK TO IT.
What would you say was your greatest challenge in writing this book?
Trying to translate what I’d learned about parenting to the page in such a way that would bless parents and genuinely help them. In the book, I help parents become conversational, to have the kinds of conversations that rebel-proof their kids. I help them create a home that’s a haven, the kind of place that’s irresistible to kids so they never want to leave. In order to do that, of course, I had to live it!
I imagine that would be a challenge to write. Communication with our kids is an important thing to pursue in todays fast paced society. You have an important message and I hope parents will take the time to read it and take it to heart.
Let’s have a little fun with the questions now.
Do you have any weird or funny writing quirks?
It’s hard to say. I am very focused when I write, so I can get in the zone and forget to eat. It’s been interesting having the kids home this summer because they need to eat!
So does their mom, so she has the strength to write more books. I can relate to forgetting to eat when you’re focused.
Do you have any rituals/habits you perform to help you settle into a writing session?
No. I pray and ask God for wisdom.
That is the most important habit to perform! I need to tack a reminder up on my monitor to get in the habit of praying EVERY time I write.
If you were a music CD, what style music would you be and why?
Edgy global music because I’m an edgy global girl.
An edgy global gal. Great answer.
What are you currently reading and how is it so far?
The Road by Cormac McCarthy. Oh my. Wow. Beautiful stuff, but a little depressing.
I haven’t heard of that one. I’ll have to read a blurb on it.
The spotlight is turned off now, any parting words?
Writing is a blessing to me. Through it, God has chosen to heal me of many, many wounds. And in the process, He’s actually used my words to bless others. It’s all very humbling and amazing.
I love it when God inspires our writing and touches both the writer and the reader. I’ve enjoyed hosting you on your blog tour and look forward to reading your book. Thanks, Mary, for joining us.
Learn more about Mary and her books at her website, Relevant Prose and her blog, Relevant Blog.




August 9th, 2007 at 6:37 am
Thanks so much for bring a beautiful stop on the Authentic Parenting Tour!
August 15th, 2007 at 8:52 pm
[...] 15th, 2007 · No Comments Almost Hypergraphic – “I am highly cynical, constantly critical, and desperate for a newcreation that will change me into something bigger, better, more worthwhile. I wonder what bearing my postmodernism will have on my daughter.” Ask Mean Mom – “DeMuth shares how she has come to terms with the culture our children are growing up in and, rather than being frightened of it, shares how she adapts her parenting to the culture. That is something that I appreciated and hadn’t given a lot of thought to.” Audra Marie – (Mary, in an interview) “Good parenting flows from the inside out. The best thing we can do for our kids is to run to Jesus and have Him move us, heal us, help us, empower us.” Blogging for Writers – “I thought it was so cool to be able to go “behind the scenes” in a writer’s life because of technology. The blog tour is another example of how she’s using the internet to reach new readers and communicate with fans.” Camy’s Loft – (Mary, in an interview)“I help parents learn how to walk alongside their kids, intersecting their world (and understanding it), as well as how to model authentic, vital Christianity in an irresistible way.” Coming Home – (Mary, in an interview) “For me, for my children, that’s my prayer, that we’d be simply and purely devoted to Jesus no matter what worldview we find ourselves in.” Edgewise – (Mary, in an interview) “The parent in a postmodern world has to learn how to translate the gospel to a generation that is highly skeptical, and balks at the idea of knowing all truth. In this storytelling generation, we need to learn how to approach our kids with stories alongside Biblical truth.” Fresh Brewed Writer – “. . . she (Mary) continues to pursue the writing life while spreading the word about postmodernism awareness in the context of Christianity. Let’s face it, folks, we can no longer bury our heads in the sand about the world around us.” Good Word Editing – “In a publishing world filled with Bible studies that provide two or three lines of space for response, Mary’s meditations on each phrase demonstrate what it looks like when absolute truth becomes personal.” Heather in Madrid – (Mary, in an interview)“More than anything, I want my kids to be Christ followers, not culture followers. I want them to be infatuated with Jesus and His kingdom. Most of that comes through the bread and butter art of modeling my own love for Jesus.” Lexical Light – “. . . the subtitle, “Practical Help for Shaping Your Children’s Hearts, Minds and Souls,” assures you it’s not merely a lofty, idealogical book on parenting. Instead, it’s quite user friendly.” Mother Inferior – “We as modern parents can learn so much from the DeMuths struggle to integrate honest faith into every single aspect of their lives–and, in doing so, impact their world for Christ.” Pattie’s Place – (Mary, in an interview) “But through it all, I realized that Jesus calls us all to be engaged in the culture we live in, yet not to be stained by it. That’s the beauty of engagement and purity.” Portrait of a Writer. . . Interrupted – (Mary, in an interview) “Basically, the premise of the book is falling in love with Jesus, that parenting is more about our vital relationship to Him than it is about following a set of parenting rules. . . That applies universally, to every relationship we face, even our relationship with potty-training toddlers.” Seedlings in Stone – “I’m puzzling… do we have a sense of things being “true or false”? Authentic or inauthentic? Why does this matter to us, or doesn’t it?” Spoiled for the Ordinary – “Authentic Parenting is a well-crafted resource for parents in considering their parenting skills and how to raise our kids to deal with the new world that is still in process of developing. Like any book, there are going to be points you may not fully agree with Mary on – so eat the meat and spit out the bones. Don’t choke on them, because you’ll miss good nourishment for your parenting life.” They Hang Like Paper Lanterns – (Mary, in an interview) “Just love Jesus. He transcends cultural shift. Dare to be all about the Kingdom of God, following hard after Him. That’s what we live for, anyway. That ‘well done, good and faithful servant.’ ” Traveling Together – “I was also challenged reading this book because I was shown that I have often mistaken protection for parenting. . . I don’t think I’m alone in not fully trusting God with my children. We say that we’ve given our children back to the Lord, but we try to control so much of their lives that we are showing them (and the world) that we don’t trust Him with our children.” Writer. . . Interrupted(Mary, in an interview) “It’s about learning how to parent our kids in a winsome, authentic way, so that our kids are well-prepared to face life when they leave home.” [...]